tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post3315752909043976095..comments2024-03-25T09:33:34.063-04:00Comments on A Woman Named Sophie: Option 1Sophie Lynnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04333071551207169892noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-66861022854894430402013-08-22T23:50:57.299-04:002013-08-22T23:50:57.299-04:00I would be leery of entering into any long term th...I would be leery of entering into any long term things like a mortgage during transition. If you do, you better save some money for yourself. Only 5% of marriages survive. Just take care of you first.Amanda Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11737560539435491538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-7437444355271784362013-08-21T09:05:24.724-04:002013-08-21T09:05:24.724-04:00I admire your courage and your devotion to your da...I admire your courage and your devotion to your daughter. It's had sometimes to be a parent and we do sacrifice for them. Hand in there Sophie! An old friend, AmyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-47619364514650289812013-08-21T06:50:56.346-04:002013-08-21T06:50:56.346-04:00I tend to over think things... If the equation has...I tend to over think things... If the equation has to balance, you cannot be pushed out until you have a viable affordable place to live otherwise everyone could become homeless...<br /><br />One thing in your favour could be that many partners base their early decisions on what they fear the future holds rather than actually waiting around long enough to see what that future is really like. She may have to see you enough to realise that being together is a good option.<br /><br />A close friend was asked to move out and the wife started the search for a new partner, they have since become good friends again and the wife said that she wished she had not been so rash and they were still together but that push into the real world has lost her that soulmate who has moved on to a new life...<br /><br />Some close family can be the hardest to find acceptance!<br /><br />Good luck.<br />Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133031265351841626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-38864379389176970032013-08-20T19:42:03.758-04:002013-08-20T19:42:03.758-04:00Sophie -
It's sad about having to keep your d...Sophie -<br /><br />It's sad about having to keep your daughter from your mother in law. But to prevent hatred from infecting her, it is the wisest thing you can do. But be careful to take care of yourself along the way. She will not do well if one of her parents is over extended and unable to provide for herself.<br /><br />MMarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18346866501735405647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-26498629672681288942013-08-20T16:03:17.447-04:002013-08-20T16:03:17.447-04:00I think I too would do whatever it takes to safegu...I think I too would do whatever it takes to safeguard your daughter's interests. One day, when she is older and can appreciate your present situation, she may be profoundly glad that you put her first.<br /><br />It may not quite work out as you hope. But I'm sure your love will be recognised.<br /><br />I admire your facing up to some all-too-likely realities. <br /><br />LucyLucy Melfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049627653901928427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2242321492229602144.post-91124485262189260102013-08-20T11:34:21.550-04:002013-08-20T11:34:21.550-04:00Your daughter is very lucky to have you in her lif...Your daughter is very lucky to have you in her life. <3Jnoreply@blogger.com